Book Notes/Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies

Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies

by Tara Schuster

"Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies" by Tara Schuster is a candid and humorous memoir that explores the author's journey of self-love and healing. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, she encourages readers to take charge of their own happiness and invest in themselves, much like buying flowers as a symbol of self-care. Schuster's blend of wit and vulnerability offers a refreshing perspective on embracing life's challenges and celebrating one's worth.

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Key Insights & Memorable Quotes

Below are the most impactful passages and quotes from Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies, carefully selected to capture the essence of the book.

You are the only person who can make you happy.
Start treating yourself like someone you love.
You have to be brave enough to take up space.
Life is a series of choices; make yours intentional.
You deserve to live a life that feels good.
Stop waiting for permission to be yourself.
Your dreams are valid, and it’s time to pursue them.
Invest in your joy; it pays the best dividends.
It's okay to ask for help; you are not alone.
Celebrate your small victories; they lead to big ones.
You are worthy of the life you want.
Invest in yourself as if you are a precious gem.
Stop waiting for permission to be happy.
Your life is a reflection of the choices you make.
Create a life that feels good on the inside.
You deserve joy and laughter every day.
Be the author of your own story.
Embrace the messy parts of your journey.
Let go of what no longer serves you.
Celebrate your victories, no matter how small.