Key Insights & Memorable Quotes
Below are the most popular and impactful highlights and quotes from It Starts with Us:
“I can draw a seedling with two tiny branches. Yours and mine. We’ll be on our own brand-new, tiny family tree—one that starts with us.”
“You're going to drive five miles just to give me a hug?""I'd run five miles just to give you a hug.”
“It is my wish for you to be my fish”
“She's my person, and I am hers, and that's something I've known since the first week we met.”
“If it takes a million kisses for her not to think about the scars that surround her heart tattoo, then I'll kiss her there a million and one times.”
“Maybe the idea of love ending being a negative thing is simply a matter of perspective. Because to me, the idea that a love came to an end means that, at some point, there was love that existed. And there was a time in my life, before you, when I was completely untouched by it.”
“I prefer honesty over loyalty any day, because with honesty comes loyalty.”
“He’s a broken man, but he isn’t broken because of me. He was broken before he met me. Sometimes people think if they love a broken person enough, they can be what finally repairs them, but the problem with that is the other person just ends up broken, too.”
“My choice helped me realize that sometimes the hardest decisions a person can make will most likely lead to the best outcomes.”
“Sometimes people think if they love a broken person enough, they can be what finally repairs them, but the problem with that is the other person just ends up broken, too.”
“We finally reached the beach, my little whale.”
“You're stressing over things that haven't even happened yet.”
“Thank you. What is it?""Our weekend special, " Atlas says. "It's called why are you avoiding me pasta.”
“I’m exactly where I belong, being loved by Atlas Corrigan.”
“It’s not the first time he’s mentioned I saved him back then, but every time he says it, I want to argue with him. I didn’t save him. All I did was fall in love with him.”
“But even monsters can’t survive without a heart beating inside their chest.”
“When I think about Ryle hitting you… I get absurdly angry. Because I love him. I do. He’s been my best friend since we were kids. But I also hate him for not being better. Nothing you have done and nothing you could do would excuse any man’s hands on you out of anger. Remember that, Lily. You made the right choice by leaving that situation. You should never feel guilty for that. Pride is the only thing you should feel.”
“I realize in this moment that the hardest part about ending an abusive relationship is that you aren’t necessarily putting an end to the bad moments. The bad moments still rear their ugly heads every now and then. When you end an abusive relationship, it’s the good moments you put an end to.”
“We don’t focus too much on what isn’t working out in our lives. We focus on what is, and there’s a lot to be grateful for.”
“Thank you for being the most comforting part of my life right now. Thank you for always being the beacon I need every time I feel lost. Whether you mean to shine on me or not. I am grateful for you. I’ve missed you. I absolutely should have kissed you.”
“My loyalty is to the people who bring positivity into my life. My loyalty is to the people who want to build me up and see me happy. Those are the people I’m going to make decisions about my life for.”
“I’ve spent my life not making bold moves when it comes to her. I wanted to make sure she knew where I stood this time.”
“Oh, are you at Lily’s?” Theo says, moving closer to the phone screen.He’s grinning. “Did you finally kiss her? Can she hear me? What line didyou use to get her to invite you in? Lily! We watched people wed, let’s hopinto—”
“sometimes the hardest decisions a person can make will most likely lead to the best outcomes.”
“In the past and for forever, you are my favorite person. Always have been. Always will be. I love you. Everything that you are.”
“I’m getting a new therapist who doesn’t bully me.”
“Atlas is so angry, but this is an anger I’m not afraid of. I realize the significance of this moment. I’m alone with an angry man in my apartment, but I’m not in fear for my life, because he isn’t angry at me.”
“Paris. Rome. London. I have no desire to sit on a hot beach somewhere. I want to see all the romantic places in Europe and make love in every city and take pictures kissing in front of the Eiffel Tower. I want to eat croissants and hold hands on trains.”
“And every time I kiss you there, I want you to remember why I kissed you there the first time.”
“Divorce is difficult. I knew it would be, but it’s so much harder than I anticipated. And navigating divorce with a child in the mix is a million times trickier. You’re stuck interacting with that person for the remainder of your life. You have to either figure out a way to plan birthday parties together or figure out a way to be okay with having separate celebrations. You have to plan on which holidays each of you get to spend with your child, which days of the week, down to which hours of the day sometimes. You can’t snap your fingers and be done with the person you married and divorced. You’re stuck with them. Forever.”
